There are some things you must change with your own thinking and your own life in order to become the best version of yourself. If you want to crick your life up, you really need to be aware of these 5 things. Get them out of the way and become more successful! Enjoy.
1. STOP listening too much
I see a lot of young people scrolling down on Facebook and all the other social media platforms. I am doing that and almost everybody else is doing it. You might think that I am going to talk about how bad Facebook and social media is for you, but I think we all know that story by heart right now. No today I want to talk about something else which you can find on Social media.
The so-called influencers. These boys and girls have a really bad impact on everybody’s lives. Why do I say this? Some influencers are very trustworthy, right? I am not talking about how trustworthy they are, but instead, they are leading people into a direction they are correct. The point is that if something has worked for him or her, that does not mean that it will work for you too. You see everybody has his or her own life. Don’t listen too much to what people tell you. If somebody says that you need to work hard to get there. It does not mean that you won’t have success in much less time than he or she did.
A lot of influencers talk about how early they wake up and how it has made them successful this does not mean that your body is made to wake up early. Even if you wake up early it does not mean you will become successful just by waking up early. You get my point, right? Don’t listen too much. Live your own life. Try to find the path that best suits you.
2. STOP Doubting yourself
All these little things like:
- I don’t think I can do this
- I don’t think I am capable of this
- They told me I could not do it so maybe they are right?
- Should I take this chance? Maybe I should keep doing what I know.
Can you recall this? It is the saddest thing you can do to yourself. You are harming yourself big time. The reason you are hurting yourself is that you need to understand that everything starts within your head. If you don’t have the guts to tell yourself that you have what it takes to become who you want to become than I just want to tell you that I am sorry for you.
If you don’t step out of this thinking habit, you won’t be able to take a step towards your goal which means that you will not grow and eventually really won’t be able to achieve what you wanted to achieve. Stop making these excuses instead do something!
3. STOP comparing
I have seen this problem so often. I even saw it today at school. When I wanted to leave class there was a friend of mine who was walking in front of me. There was a dude behind us and he said to my friend: “WOOWW look at your shoes! You must have a lot of money!” I was like: “Man you have a Stone Island shirt maybe he has worked months to buy this shoe. Why do you keep an eye on somebody else”
I believe that this has all started with social media. There are so many people on social media who seem like they have it all. The reality is that they have nothing. A lot of people assume that somebody has a lot of money because of the way they dress. The problem with this is the fact that you keep on eye on somebody else and not on your own life. After a while, you will lose track of your own life. Focus on what you have and what you can do to make your life better and live the life you always wanted to live.
4. STOP Being negative
Your mind is a machine. What happens if you give the machine bad information all the time? It will produce bad products. This is exactly what happens if you keep thinking in a bad way about your life, your day or anything else. Remember that your mind is powerful it can shape your whole day. One single negative thought can make you feel bad the whole day. Why would you do that to yourself?
Be careful with your thoughts and be positive. You are great!
5. STOP Doing too much
As I have been working lately, I have been trying a lot of stuff at once. My focus was not on one thing. This will make you less productive and not a specialist in one thing. I have seen that if you focus on one single goal, your head will be much less full and you can become a specialist in a field of choice. From there on you can slowly learn some new stuff. Make sure that you focus your energy on one specific field. Become good at what you are doing.
In this post, I have given you 5 things you must change to live a better life. Let’s have a quick recap. First of all, make sure that you don’t listen to every advice somebody gives you. Remember that everybody has a different work ethic and your life is not the same as the one who is telling you to do the things in their way.
The next one is that you need to start believing in yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself you will never make a move towards your goal and regret is the only thing you will have in your life. The next one is that you need to start comparing your life to the life of somebody else. Focus on what you have and what you can do.
The next one is that you need to get the negativity out of your life. Your mind is a machine that you need to keep feeding with good things and it will produce good things. Last but not least try to focus on one goal and focus all your energy on that one goal.
I hope you enjoyed the post!